Make a Splash in Old Navy Mix and Match Swimwear

June 1st, 2010

After reading Sonia’s wonderful post on Santa Barbara’s must-go beaches, I felt inspired to do a little shopping.  Okay it doesn’t take much to inspire me to shop but this time it was specifically about what to wear to the beach.  Although I’m dreading seeing myself in a bikini under the fluorescent lights of a dressing room, I’m hoping my newly enstated calorie counting and the diffusing glow of California sun will make everything better.  My favorite bikini trend right now is the mix-and-match bikini.  Here are a couple bikini mix-and-match sets I put together from one of the best bargain buy stops, OLD NAVY:

Old Navy Mix-and-Match Bikini Set #1:

Women’s Mix & Match Ruffle-Trim Bikini Top in Spring Valley Green ($12.00)

Women’s String-Bikini Bottoms in Black Jack ($16.50)

Old Navy Mix-and-Match Bikini Set #2:

Women’s Halter Bikini Top in Purple ($12.00)

Women’s Boy Short Swim Bottoms in White ($16.50)

Old Navy Mix-and-Match Bikini Set #3:

Women’s Bandeau Halter Top ($16.50)

Women’s Mix-and-Match Ruffled Bikini Bottoms in Peach Flambe ($12.00)

And for you single-piece gals:

Women’s Ruffled Swimsuits ($25.00)

Women’s Color-Block Bandeau Halter Swimsuits

xoxo, Vanesa

10 Study Tips or Ways to gettin your *ish done!

May 24th, 2010

Being a high-powered machine and conquering your workload is never easy.  It’s a finely mastered craft that takes years of experience and a Starbucks Gold Card.  I’ve never been one to be able to just sit down and hammer work out.  I need ambiance, I need inspiration, I need to get into the mood.  Here are are a few of my tricks to getting through the work:

  1. Set the Scene: Whether it’s heading to your favorite spot in the library, a local coffee shop, or your desk space at home, make sure that your area is conducive to working.  Make sure the space has enough light, all of the supplies you need, and free of distractions.  This means if you’re at home, turn off the television!

    Student studying from m00by on Flickr

  2. Have a small treat with you, and if you need it, make it a caffeinated one.  Everyone knows I love my Starbucks.  But I really do try to have some kind of enjoyable beverage while I work or study. It helps brighten up the situation so I don’t feel like my work is torturous.
  3. Get the music flowing. The music you play shouldn’t be distracting.  But you don’t want to be put to sleep either.  I normally try to play something with a good beat to keep me motivated.  I’ve always found that great she-power rock gets me pumped to conquer my work.
  4. Watch what you wear.  If you are in for a long study or work session, make sure that what you’re wearing is comfortable enough for you t focus but not so comfortable that you can slowly curl into fetal position and use your keyboard as a pillow.

    Hard work can Hurt from normalityrelief's Flickr

  5. Take a few minutes between every hour to get up and stretch!!! Your body needs to move and blood needs to flow through your body.  Taking 10 minutes between the hours will help clear your mind and rejuvenate you.

    Namaste from Canon in 2D on Flickr

  6. Schedule cell phone time.  While you’re on your ten minute stretch break you can also use this time to answer any social text messages or phone calls.  Create clearly defined times to get on your cell phone.  Otherwise you may use up all of your study time talking on the phone.  At 3 am you’ll wonder where all your study time went as you cram through your notes.

    Girl on Cell Phone from Billy D on Flickr

  7. Start each session outlining what you need to get accomplished.  Break out time slots and assign what you will accomplish in that time frame.  Be realistic with yourself and prioritize what needs to be addressed first.
  8. Pick your study partner wisely.  It’s great to have a study partner but make sure that your companion is compatible to what you are trying to accomplish.  The girlfriend who is going through a break-up and only wants to talk about her boyfriend troubles is not your best bet when trying to get work done.  You can talk to her on Friday when your mid-terms are over.  She’ll still have the SAME things to say.
  9. Outline your workload.  Use a calendar to set goals of when you need to have projects, assignments, and papers done.  This way you can forecast what’s ahead.  You may find that you have 3 papers due in one week.  This way you’ll know which papers to get a head-start on during the weeks ahead.
  10. Prepare for the next day.  At the end of every study or work session prep all of the things that you will tackle during your next session.  This will relieve you of any anxiety you may have over what is up in the air and what is not.  You’ll be able to go into your next session with a clear head and a  game plan of what to work on next.

Let ‘em See You in the Nude: Beautiful and affordable dresses in this season’s best neutral

May 18th, 2010

Lately I’ve been spotting a lot of great nude dresses. I always find nude, skin tone, blush dresses to be so beautiful.  They say so much by saying so little.  Remember Carrie and Big’s first date when she wears the “naked dress” and she thinks he’ll always remember her “that way”?  Am I going overboard with all of the Sex and the City references lately? (I’m sorry, I can’t help it.  But it’s the only thing that I can equate to my real life on television, other than the two men with the Asian baby on Modern Family.)  To avoid any Carrie-isms with the “naked dress” scenario, make sure to wear a more demure cut when sporting this color block.  Otherwise people may think you’re actually naked.

A few fabulous nude choices from Asos.com:


ASOS Dresses from Left to Right, Top row to Bottom row:

ASOS Mesh and Slinky Drape Dress ($64.25)

TFNC Scatter Sequin Open Back Dress ($67.64)

TFNC Bead Embellished Layered Chiffon Dress ($67.64)

ASOS Tailored Linen Pencil Dress ($54.11)

ASOS Ruffle Organza Tipped Edge Bandeau Dress ($93.00)

Very by Vero Moda Contrast Tulip Dress ($84.55)

More Nude colored dresses with demure cuts:

TARGET: Merona Collection Beaded Neckline Dress in Desert Sand ($39.99)

KOHL’S: Dana Buchman Linen Dress (On Sale $49.99)

KMART: Speechless Glitter Knit Illusion Straps Satin Inset ($49.99)

xoxo, Vanesa

For the love of books: E-Reader Apps for your smart phone and what I’m reading right now

May 17th, 2010

I started off this post thinking I would compare all the new E-Reader devices out there….Sony Daily Edition, Amazon Kindle, Apple iPad (as an E-Reader), and then I realized that I’ve never really used any of these readers.  ( So if any of the above would like to send me a FREE one, I’m available!)  My second realization was that when it comes down to it, I’m really not going to spend the $500 on a device that hasn’t quite been perfected yet.  I learned that lesson with my first generation iPod.  But I will spend a few dollars to add a reader app to my iPhone.  So here are the top apps to consider:

B&N eReader by Barnes and Noble for iPhone (FREE)

While this app gives you the opportunity to purchase books within the Barnes and Noble library and share these books with friends, the reviews come in that book prices are a bit high.

Kindle by Amazon.com for iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch (FREE)

This is one of the most popular apps because of the ability to play with font size and color, access to the Amazon bookstore, turn pages, and add notes/highlights. Reviews come in saying there are problems in syncing to other reader devices and you only have book options, no magazines or newspapers.  Also it does not allow you to share books with friends.

eBooks by Kobo HD for iPhone, iPad, Blackberry, or Palm Pre (FREE)

It seems like our non-iPhone friends have been neglected in the eReader app world and that’s where Kobo steps in.   Not only is the app available for multiple platforms, after you download your book you are able to read it in other platforms as well, not just the device you downloaded it on.

There are parts of me that are very techie and can find myself browsing through the book selection on my iPhone while standing in line for a latte.  But the other side of me is championing for the survival of the good ole book.  Turning the pages, dog-earing memorable selections, and writing notes in a favorite book will never be forgotten on me.  Here is what I’m currently thumbing through:

Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman’s Search for Everything Across Italy, India, and Indonesia by Elizabeth Gilbert

I can’t precisely say that I’m reading through this book.  The truth is I keep this book in constant contact, often looking up pages, quotes, stories that I find truth in.  How many times have I read this book? About 592?  I always find the answer in Elizabeth Gilbert’s approach of having none of the answers.  I’ve found that this book is extremely dividing amongst people.  They either love it, or hate it.  If you don’t love it, you’re not ready for it.  When you’re ready, you will love it.

My Horizontal Life: A Collection of One Night Stands by Chelsea Handler

Chelsea Handler.  One night stands. Midgets. Vodka. Distasteful humor.  All I can say is that you will laugh your ass off and I warned you.

Food Matters by Mark Bittman

Mark Bittman is and has been the acclaimed writer of “The Minimalist” in The New York Times for the past 11 years.  In this book he focuses on how food plays a major role in our body’s health as well as the earth’s health.  As Mark states on his website,” Food Matters presents a series of easily adaptable strategies—along with meal plans and recipes—for eating sanely, judiciously, and consciously.”

xoxo, Vanesa

Guest post from our friend, Nancy, of Belgium

May 13th, 2010

My entire life I dreamed of an international life.  I’ve pieced together all the scenarios of how I could live and work in San Sebastian, Paris, Tokyo, or London.  As much as American girls fantasize about life in other parts of the world, there are just as many girls around the world thinking about a life in America.  Here at Campus Confidant we’ve been blessed to have the wonderful help of an exchange student named Nancy.  A former model and currently finishing up a stint at an international school in Santa Barbara, Nancy has given us a beautiful glimpse into the world of a young woman from across the globe.  I’ve asked Nancy to share her thoughts on her experience.  We will miss her dearly when she returns home later this month.

xoxo, Vanesa

Being an exchange student in the USA is a genuine experience, a unique project you know you may not do again before a long time. In my case, after 4 months of living in Santa Barbara, I have definitely changed my way of thinking toward everything I knew before about the world, but especially toward this multi-cultural culture; which is America.

I have never experienced such an extreme, mind-blowing, different, wealthy and amazing way of living, thinking and being.  In contrast to the countries I’ve been to already, in Europe and Belgium, the USA has this power, strength, and potential I’ve never seen before. The American dream I heard about so many times in my history lessons seems to have had a real impact on me.

I think that the USA has always fascinated the “old continent”. Engineers, doctors, ambitious independents, artists, investors, or just ordinary families have been migrating in masses to the United States with the sole purpose of “seeking a better life”.

But why the USA? Why the USA and not China, Africa, Oceania or Russia? The world is so big…After a couple of months spent here I think  I’m getting closer to the answer.  America allows you to realise the craziest dreams you’ve ever had and it can give you the opportunity to travel almost all around the world, by staying in your own motherland.  Nothing is too much and too much is nothing.

Wherever you come from, whatever you are and whatever your convictions might be, as soon as you’ve crossed the American border, you become an American citizen.  And this is exactly what makes it so special.

Even though there were some hard times, having the blues and being homesick, I have never felt so “at home” even though I was abroad.  I had the chance to travel through California and every single place I went there were different people, landscapes, influences, historical backgrounds, concerns, and politics.

The first thing that literally confused me as I arrived was the friendly, laid-back, and open minded way of living people had in California.  A “ Hi, how is it going today?” when you get into a grocery store or a supermarket wouldn’t have been given the slightest in Europe. “Why are you asking such private questions when you don’t even know me? It doesn’t make sense,” we would have said.  But this friendly way of starting a conversation is nothing but an amicable and usual form for saying “Hello”.

Thanks to all these wonderful people I have met, the places I have been, and the things I have learned, the general impression that will always stay in my heart is nothing but positive and my return to the so-called “Land of the free”.

To finish up this article I would like to thank Vanesa for having been one of the first greatest person I met in the US, the one who gave me a quick but pleasant glimpse of the way you work and finally the one who accepted me spontaneously onto the team.

Thank you for having me here,

Nancy

Nancy in Hollywood


10 Things to Get You Started at Your New Job or Internship

May 10th, 2010

Image from freedigitalphotos.net

If you’ve landed a new job or internship there are a few things you need to know to start your job on the right foot.  You want to come off as professional as possible and even if you’ve never worked a “real job” before, you want to make it seem like you have.  This way, your management won’t regret hiring you on day two mumbling the words, “But they were so great in the interview…”

1. Answering the phone: Your work phone and your personal phone are two very different monsters.  “What’s up?” and “Hey” are not the verbal welcome your office will want to convey.  If you haven’t been directed on how to answer the company phone then the safest answer for a ringing telephone would be stating the company name and then your name.  For Example..[ringing telephone] “Campus Confidant, this is Vanesa.”

2. Outgoing message setup: You will want to make sure that all of your outgoing message responses are setup.  Make sure your voicemail and your email signature now have all of your information and not the person who held the position before you.

3. Signing emails: Many companies are different on how they write emails.  In general always make sure you have a signature to your messages.  ALWAYS sign off with a “Sincerely”, “Best”, or “Warm Regards”.  Since you are an entry level employee it sometimes can come off as rude or arrogant not to have a signature line.

4. Email signature: Make sure that after you sign off your email that you have an email signature.  That signature should include your name and contact information for work.  DO NOT put your personal contact information or social networking sites such as your Twitter or AIM handle, especially if it is not work related and you have some crazy name like “Sweetcheeks143″.

5. Writing professional emails: Yes this is the electronic age but in the business world you can come off flaky and immature if you treat your emails as a Facebook comment.  Write complete sentences, and well organized thoughts.  Do not overload your email with LOLs and emoticons.  This is business, not an RSVP to an Evite.  Make sure that you are writing in a manner that you can be taken seriously.

6. Attire: I’m surprised I even have to write this but people just do not get it…especially our demographic of young women.  At the office, cleavage is distracting, short skirts are distracting, Gwen Stefani acrylic nails are distracting, sloppiness is distracting, stripper shoes are distracting, and peek-a-boo underwear is distracting.  If there is any place in the world that you want people to take you seriously and respect you it is at your job!  You want a career right?  (If not, you’re on the wrong blog.  You can head to that Investment Banker’s Girlfriends Anonymous site.)  Even if your peers joke around with you for your outfits, you should always dress for the position you want not the position that you are.  If you want the corner office part of it is making the hire-ups believe you belong there.  While the girl flashing her leopard bra and slit up her ass may get attention she certainly is not getting promoted.  Save the sexy getups for the clubs where you can actually do something about it and not get in a lawsuit.

7. Analyze the environment. If your office is quiet, don’t be a loudmouth.  If everyone on your team is staying till 6pm, don’t leave at 5 pm.  Make sure that you survey the scene and are flexible enough to ease into the culture.

8. Diligence, Diligence, Diligence. One of the very first times I had to “manage” someone was during an internship in college.  The other intern I managed always had 300 questions, only completed 50% of her projects, and then would come to me and tell me how she couldn’t finish her work.  It’s not that the other intern didn’t have as much knowledge as me or that I had easier projects, it was that she wasn’t diligent.  When she got to an issue she didn’t know the answer she would just ask me.  Before asking me she should have searched through previous emails, used Google, or went through her notes from our meetings to see if she could find the answer on her own first.  If she would have taken 5 extra minutes to try and get as many details as possible on her own she would have saved us both more time and made herself more of an asset than a liability. In the end, I got hired full time, and she was back to being unemployed.

9. Show up. I mean this in so many ways.  If you are going to take a job then show up for it.  Be on time, be prepared, turn in your work, spell check, go through your work with a fine tooth comb before submitting, wait to take days off or a vacation until you’ve really put in your time with the company, engage 100% of your mind and body to your job when you are there. Show your commitment, show that you can be trusted, SHOW UP! You will without a doubt make mistakes but if you are constantly trying to put your best foot forward those mistakes will serve as lessons and not points toward firing someone who always half-asses everything anyways.

10. Check your attitude. Your job is not an episode of “The Hills”.  Put your big girl panties on and act like one.  I say this over and over, but you need to be the person that people will want to deal with first thing in the morning at 9 am, even before they’ve gotten a latte.  On the other hand, don’t be a kiss ass.  No one likes a kiss ass and if you start building your career on this practice at the beginning you’ll have nothing left of yourself by the time you’re 30.

xoxo, Vanesa

“Why Don’t You Love Me?” …oh but I do. Friday is so Sasha Fierce

May 7th, 2010

Oy! What a crazy week it has been.  Sorry for leaving up the heinous photo of Cinco de Mayo jello shots as your first glimpse on the site.  Ya’ll deserve some pretty so I’m gifting you some Beyonce “Why Don’t You Love Me?”-Video-Vintage-Feel-Goodness for the weekend.  I’m off to a charity event tonight but I’ll be back with a few great surprises next week especially for all my Santa Barbara Campus Confidants.
xoxo, Vanesa

Cinco De Drinko? Err…Mayo! Jello Shots!

May 5th, 2010

Image from Wikipedia.com

Do I dare file this post under Culture, Food??  I can’t help myself.  Sure this isn’t the classiest post I’m ever going to put out there but we live in a world where a girl named “Snooky” is making way more money than the average working girl.  Plus I went to UCSB where Cinco de Mayo could qualify for official school holiday status, right up there with Halloween.  On top of it I’m a Southern Californian and the public must give props to our neighbors down south through some fiesta fun time.  So here it is, Cinco de Mayo jello shots found on the aptly titled website, www.jello-shots-and-shooters.com, (and here you thought icanhascheezburger.com was the most trivial thing the web had to offer).  Before I continue with the recipes remember DRINK RESPONSIBLY!!!! No one needs to get hurt and no one needs to do the walk of shame in the morning  in 5 inch platforms and a sombrero.

MARGARITA JELLO JIGGLER SHOTS:

Start by pouring 1 1/2 cups of boiling water into a large glass measuring cup. Dissolve 4 packages (3 oz size) of Lime Jello for about 2 minutes. Add 2 oz of Tequila and 1 oz of Triple Sec and 5 oz of cold water and stir well. Pour the liquid directly into a 9 x 13 inch pan and chill until firm (about 3 hours).

The number of servings entirely depends on the size that you cut your jigglers – adjust as needed for your party.

TEQUILA SUNRISE JELLO SHOTS:

Start with a large glass measuring cup and measure 3/4 cup of boiling water. Add 1 package of Orange Jello (3 oz) and stir at least 2 minutes until fully dissolved. Next, add 1/2 cup of cold water, 1/4 cup of Grenadine and 1/2 cup of Tequila. Stir until completely combined and cool before pouring into jello shot cups.

This recipe makes about 10 shots – adjust as needed for your party.

TIJUANA TAXI JELLO SHOTS:

Start with a large glass measuring cup (at least 4 cups in size or bigger if you have it) and measure 2 cup of boiling water. Dissolve 2 packages of Lemon Jello (3 oz size) and stir at least 2 minutes until fully dissolved. Next, add 1 cup of cold water, 1/2 cup of Tequila, 1/4 cup of Blue CaracaoTropical Fruit Schnapps. Stir until completely combined and give it a chance to cool before pouring into jello shot cups. and 1/4 cup of

This recipe makes about 18 shots – adjust as needed for your party.




Spotted: The one that broke my heart

May 4th, 2010

It was the “Carrie spots Big with Natasha for the first time in the Hamptons then runs to the beach to throw up” moment.  Except I was still the 20-something and there was no Natasha, just the spotting of the ghost of someone I once gave my heart to.  It happened so unexpectedly.  This was my side of town, not his.  This was one of my local restaurants, not his. But the sheer sighting of him made me want to run and hide.  I had done everything to hide the evidence of his existence and there he was two years later standing in front of me ordering a chopped salad.  I panicked and found myself stuttering to my girlfriend,Laura, “Put your sunglasses on!!” Once Laura figured out who and what was going on she began to mock me relentlessly.  She had never seen me lose my cool (especially regarding the opposite sex), nor had she ever seen me want so desperatly to go unnoticed.  After he whisked away, salad in hand, I spent the next few days wondering why I a)was so bothered and b)had absolutely no desire to approach him with all the overly audacious updates of my current fabulous life that had since outgrown him.  Isn’t that how the fantasy always plays out?  Ex is spotted and ambushed with all the wonderful details of the life he could never again be a part of?  I finally figured out it wasn’t him.  It was the girl that used to be with him.  The older me wanted to protect the younger me that once dated him.  I wanted to protect the girl that was with him and felt fat when she was skinny, the girl who felt stupid when she was smart, and the girl that felt unlovable when she was lovable.  He made her feel all of those things and she had come so far that I no longer wanted him to have the pleasure of getting the chance to meet all that she had become. And so they never met again and the princess lived happily ever after.

xoxo,

Vanesa

USPS Stamps to the Rescue! helping to save Adopt a Shelter Pets

May 3rd, 2010

I really believe that the way a person treats animals says a lot about the type of person they are.  For many of us our pets have become extended family members.  I’ll admit it, if it came down to saving a human that was a stranger versus my dog, I’m jumping in and saving the dog.  I’ve never met a human that is so unconditionally loving and happy just to be with you (other than my parents but they don’t count because they’re obliged through their hopes of legacy preservation).  I got an email from my other animal-lovin’ friends about the USPS’ philanthropic campaign Stamps to the Rescue! featuring shelter animals as a way to promote adopting shelter pets.  The five cats and dogs featured on the stamps were all adopted from shelters.  This seriously makes my heart melllllllltttttt.  I can’t imagine what life would be like if my brother hadn’t rescued our family dog.  So head to the USPS site to order your stamps because other than your rent check, someone out there needs to get a hand written note from you along with a smile at the site of these little critters!

xoxo, Vanesa

What to Wear to Coachella Music Festival

April 13th, 2010

I had the best time at Coachella last year but due to my overwhelming workload I just don’t have the time, energy, or gusto to make it out this year.  I remember it being a long hot day and the appropriate outfit is imperative for survival.  Here are a few of my favorite Coachella outfits found at Elle.com.  To see their entire album click here.

You can’t go wrong with a sweet and breezy long dress to cover your legs while rolling around in the grass.

This girl must have gotten to the festival later in the day.  There is no way a white dress would survive on me during Coachella. Two hours in the dress would be covered in remnants of margarita slushie, ketchup, and pretzel salt.  I’d do my best attempt to pretend it was some type of Pucci-inspired number.

The floppy hat and indigenous accessories take the classic black and white from the club to the desert.

Somewhere out there is a J.Crew catalogue missing a model.

Somewhere out there that High School Musical kid is looking for his girlfriend.

F-I-E-R-C-E!!!!!!  Bold use of color and a total 60′s vibe.  I want to put on Peter Paul and Mary’s “If I had a Hammer” and jam out.  Love this girl.

xoxo,

Vanesa

Kick-Ass Career Chick Marissa Mayer of Google

April 12th, 2010

While flipping through an old edition of Glamour I came across a great article on Marissa Mayer of Google.  Interesting to think that probably the most beloved and powerful companies in the world has a lot to do with a blonde bombshell.  Marissa was one of the first 20 employees at Google and now takes post as Vice President of Search Product and User Experience.  What I love about Marissa is that it has been highly publicized of her love for wearing Oscar De La Renta and Armani to the office.  Her clean, simple aesthetic translates largely into everything Google puts out.  Marissa is unapologetically female and in an industry dominated by men she is leading the pack…in Oscar frickin De La Renta!!!  As I started combing the web in complete, jaw-dropping admiration (using Google, of course) I found out the following:

  • Her full-time residence is a penthouse in the San Francisco Four Seasons (she likes the amenities of grilled cheese via room service and that Barneys is her neighbor).
  • When she graduated with her masters from Stanford she had 12 job offers.
  • One of her goals is to bring more women into technology and teach them to take chances.
  • Naeem Khan designed her dresses for her bridal festivities including a going away dress based on a dress Jackie Kennedy wore while touring India.
  • On the Jackie Kennedy tip, her childhood bedroom still has the Jackie Kennedy doll collection she created as a child.
  • I love the fact that Jackie Kennedy is clearly one of this woman’s idols.
  • According to Google’s corporate page, “Her efforts have included designing and developing Google’s search interface, internationalizing the site to more than 100 languages, defining Google News, Gmail, and Orkut, and launching more than 100 features and products on Google.com. Several patents have been filed on her work in artificial intelligence and interface design. In her spare time, Marissa also organizes Google Movies – outings a few times a year to see the latest blockbusters – for 6,000+ people (employees plus family and friends).”……I’m exhausted just copy pasting all of that.

For more information on this Kick Ass Career Chick, click on the below links:

http://www.google.com/corporate/execs.html

http://www.sanfranmag.com/story/adventures-marissa

http://www.glamour.com/women-of-the-year/2009/marissa-mayer

http://www.vogue.com/voguedaily/2009/12/the-bride-wore-snowflakes/

xoxo,

Vanesa

Oh, Snap…Mark Your Calendars for May 27th!

April 9th, 2010

There are no words. There is only love…

xoxo,
Vanesa

The Sartorialist’s Photo Shoot trying to capture “the cool, blogger girl”

April 9th, 2010

I am an avid reader of the blog, The Sartorialist.  I came across this post where he featured the behind the scenes of a shoot he did for Italian Vogue Pelle.  The inspiration behind this shoot was “the cool, blogger girl.” Whaaaaaa?????!?!?!?! (Eyes bugged, eyebrows hinged) Yesssss………(grin of satisfaction.)  So I’ll never be 5’11″, 95 lbs, and perfect bone structure.  I’m 5’6 on a good day, still shedding the 15 lbs I’ve been meaning to lose for the past year, and boys at my jr. high once referred to me as “pancake face”.  But today I have my victory.  Today tech-savvy, neurotic, fashion-musing chicas stomping on the keyboard can unite in glee as we view the shoot to which we are muse.  :-)

Now let’s go enjoy the weekend….

xoxo,

Vanesa

Kris Allen’s “Live Like We’re Dying” Has Me Rethinking My Approach to Life

April 8th, 2010

Don’t judge me.  But yes, I watch American Idol.  In fact I LOVE IT.  I especially loved the showdown between Kris Allen and Adam Lambert.  Adam was everyone’s favorite and of course he got my full support (I can’t deny guyliner and musical theatrics…we’ll get to my love of Simon and Seacrest another time).  But now that Kris Allen has released his debut album I can really see how talented the guy is.  I’ve been jamming out to this song and every word he sings rings louder each time.  Take the time to read the lyrics and see how you can apply it to your life.

Sometimes we fall down and can’t get back up
We’re hiding behind skin that’s too tough
How come we don’t say I love you enough
Till it’s to late, it’s not too late

Our hearts are hungry for a food that won’t come
We could make a feast from these crumbs
And we’re all staring down the barrel of a gun
So if your life flashed before you
What would you wish you would’ve done

Yeah… gotta start
Lookin at the hand of the time we’ve been given here
This is all we got and we gotta start pickin it
Every second counts on a clock that’s tickin’
Gotta live like we’re dying

We only got
86 400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or throw it all away
We gotta tell ‘em that we love ‘em
While we got the chance to say
Gotta live like we’re dying

And if your plane fell out of the skies
Who would you call with your last goodbyes
Should be so careful who we live out our lives
So when we long for absolution
There’ll no one on the line

Yeah… gotta start
Lookin at the hand of the time we’ve been given here
This is all we got and we gotta start pickin it
Every second counts on a clock that’s tickin’
Gotta live like we’re dying

We only got
86 400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or throw it all away
We gotta tell ‘em that we love ‘em
While we got the chance to say
Gotta live like we’re dying

Like we’re dying oh – like we’re dying

We only got
86 400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or throw it all away
We gotta tell ‘em that we love ‘em
While we got the chance to say
Gotta live – like we’re dying

We never know a good thing till it’s gone
You never see a crash until it’s head on
All those people right when we’re dead wrong
You never know a good thing till it’s gone

Yeah… gotta start
Lookin at the hand of the time we’ve been given here
This is all we got and we gotta start livin it
Every second counts on a clock that’s tickin’
Gotta live like we’re dying

We only got
86 400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or throw it all away
We gotta tell ‘em that we love ‘em
While we got the chance to say
Gotta live like we’re dying

Like we’re dying oh – like we’re dying

We only got
86 400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or throw it all away
We gotta tell ‘em that we love ‘em
While we got the chance to say
Gotta live like we’re dying
Live like we’re dying

xoxo,

Vanesa


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